It always breaks my heart to see human nature operate in this plastic world. A world built on superficial beauty and status is a trap too many fall for too easily and too often, believing money and fame can buy enduring happiness and contentment. Little do they know that beneath the surface lies the deeper truth – the relentless pursuit of soulless pleasures like money and fame almost always ends in personal decay, then death. When the self becomes the idol, the soul begins to die.
Take for example in recent times, the Bonnie Blue phenomenon. It is hardly unique in this day and age. Many are selling their souls for a piece of the pie, pursuing their ambitions and dreams relentlessly. With online validation, attention, and wealth being like addictive drugs, all that matters is the next dopamine hit. In the case of Bonnie, I wonder if she truly feels adored worldwide, like a revolutionary inspiration, or does she feel a deeper sense of rejection knowing she is nothing more than a circus act exploited by men for the pleasure of young boys.
The saddest part about the phenomenon is the millions of lives she influences. It pains me to write about this because all I can think about are the young girls I know. I hope and pray they never see her as some sort of role model, as so many others have. As a mother myself, I want to wrap up Bonnie in a blanket, drag her off-stage, clean her up and tell her that she is destroying herself and all the lives with whom she comes into contact. But Margo, surely she should know this, you say?
In the recent A Current Affair Special, The Bonnie Blue Interview, she tells us that she simply does not care. She has lost her moral compass as she peddles lie after lie. She repeatedly makes statements like “people can do whatever makes them happy”, while absolving herself of blame for the many indiscretions people have had to endure as a result of her existence. She sat almost smugly as she told Ally Langdon that she should not be held responsible for the ramifications of her actions. She mockingly states if a married man was to sleep with her, that is not her problem, it is his and his wife’s. Part of me agrees. People should be more discerning – using wisdom and self-control instead of simply feeding their own flesh and imitating others. I can almost imagine the devil laughing at God, mocking Him about the people He created.
“They have cast lots for My people, Have given a boy as payment for a harlot, And sold a girl for wine, that they may drink.”
Joel 3:3 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/jol.3.3.NKJV
If we truly had to study the soul of Bonnie, we could assess just how much she truly suffers even if unbeknownst to herself. Her whole identity is wrapped up in her money and body. She is a walking dead person interested only in her public persona. She has become a narcissistic, fragmentation of herself, no longer able to discern right from wrong. Nevertheless, we judge a woman at the end of her life and can only hope and pray she encounters “the woman caught in adultery” moment.
Fame and fortune offer only illusions of glory, validation and security. They whisper deceptively at the heart’s desire to be loved, seen, and secure. But we know, as Bonnie and other countless examples will soon discover, it gives and takes in the same breath. Sometimes immediately, but most often, eventually. While money and fame are not inherently evil, if they are our only pursuits, then they become our idols. The path to freedom from this deceptive, cruel world is a personal relationship with Jesus. An identity in Christ is all we need. We may live small, humble lives, but we live large in Christ. Our mission in the pursuit of GOD’s glory is an adventure leading to everlasting life and heavenly glories.
“What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”
(Matt 16:26)







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